The moment your relationship status changes from dating to engaged,
you'll receive a flood of well wishes from all angles, but how do you
deal with the awkward or not-so nice questions that will follow?

One of the easiest questions you may have to
answer in your life is when you say 'yes' to your fiancé when he
proposes to you, but the ones that follow from family, friends and even
strangers, might not be that fun.
The moment your
relationship status changes from dating to engaged, you'll receive a
flood of well wishes from all angles, but how do you deal with the
awkward or not-so nice questions that will follow?
According to etiquette expert, Louise Fox, the number one rule is not answer. "People will ask anything these days, there are no boundaries," Fox says.
"Technology
has played into that – everything is all out there and you know
everything about everybody and you know everything about every celebrity
and you think you have the right to know."
Here are a few suggestions on how to handle uncomfortable topics after getting engaged:
How much your ring and wedding costs... "The
rule of thumb is don't answer any questions that you're uncomfortable
with, nosy and inquisitive questions are nobody's business but yours," says Fox.
Are you getting a pre-nup? "Sometimes
you just need a direct approach and say 'I'm uncomfortable' or
sometimes if it is someone you don't know very well, ask them if they're
a lawyer. They'll likely say no, and you change the subject."
When are you having kids? "Sometimes
it's just best to say it's complicated... When you're talking and
you've got the floor it's easier to change the topic."
On wedding planning and guests lists ... "Consideration, compromise and courtesy are the good three C's to use when you're in a wedding situation," Fox says. "We tend to feel like we have to answer, [sic] you don't." She changes subjects here. "You don't have to give an excuse and you don't have to give a reason if you don't feel comfortable answering a question."
Final tip - don't over-share: While it's tempting to take a million ring selfies and list the details of your relationship, take a step back. "Sometimes,
there is just too much sharing... Of course it does open people up
because you seem to want to share and it's tempting to want to go
there," Fox says. "Be realistic."
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Good day precious one, We love you more than anything.